Choosing your bridesmaids

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1. Choose wisely
Pick only those you truly want standing up there beside you, supporting you on your big day. Don't be tempted to ask anyone out of duty or guilt.

2. Delegate
If you take on everything yourself, you'll be overwhelmed. It's your bridesmaids' job to help with smaller wedding tasks, so don't be afraid to ask them to lend a hand. For more tips on who does what on your big day, read our wedding etiquette guide.

3. Be clear
If you feel someone isn't pulling their weight, tell them exactly what it is you want them to do. They're not psychic!

4. Let them have their say
Everyone likes to feel their opinions count, so ask for their input wherever you can, especially with their outfits. Why not do some research together online and check out some different bridesmaid dresses?

5. Say thank you
Make sure you say thank you to each of your bridesmaids, whether it's with an extravagant gift, a small token of appreciation or simply a hug and some kind words. Check out our pick of the best bridesmaid gifts for ideas.